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Are women humans?

Social media can be the devil. I admit I enjoy Youtube a lot, there are lots of very enjoyable channels, with quality information, or fun and comedy, or just plain enjoyable. Then, there are the other ones. I really can't tell why I keep getting those on my recommended list because I don't like them, I don't search for them, and I usually mark them as "not interested". Anti-women videos. I took a peak at few of them and it made me sad and angry at the same time. Why people always invent reasons to hate groups of people based on various things? There are hate videos on certain nationalities, races, religions, sexual orientations, whatever you can imagine evil human mind can think of. And of course, there are videos directed at women. Lets be real, I do not condone any type of hate based on gender, nationality, race, traditions, sexual orientation, or whatever type of criteria evil human mind can invent. I don't care for men-hating videos too. I do not think people are evil in general based on something they are literally born into or born as. That sounds like a hate crime because it is. But, this time, I will focus on anti-women essays, videos and articles.

What bugs me the most is why am I getting all those stuff I do not want to see? Like people, men and women (interestingly enough), talking about how women are things, stuff, mindless objects, that lose value while getting older, and basically have no value in the first place if they do not apply to certain "standards". Like looks, because we need to look amazing, youth is not enough. Apparently, since we have no brains or intelligence, or anything of worth besides our vaginas and that our body can create other humans, our worth can be measured in beauty, surface appearance, age and compliance to men. Today I stumbled upon a video of former female prostitute explaining how women don't understand that men "need sex" otherwise they go to see prostitutes, and men need to be pleased and praised and what not. And women are losing "options" by aging because men try once and then they realize they can do better with younger women. I mean, now we are like replaceable by silicone vaginas from sex shop? Or by hookers if man has money? That's our "worth"? Of course, like many other women with such rhetoric, she was pandering to men who accepted this with gratitude because they felt like they should not invest into relationship with woman, she should invest all into them! Because, apparently we were made to serve them. Men work, we serve them in return. And women don't work? Who said that? So my 30 years of working experience with no break is not real work somehow? Women who work all their lives do not count as women somehow? All those we see in hospitals, schools, at retails, in accounting companies etc I guess those are not women? Or their work does not count because... what?

Now I see angry videos of men who are "lonely and bitter because of feminism". Men who troll videos made by women writing how all we care about is money, and how rich man is etc. And all the men who are poor and married  with children or just with girlfriends they do not exists? Or their wives somehow do not count as women? Or those men somehow aren't men? Explain me that, please. Basic "logic" is that since women have rights and can work and be independent there are men who can't "have" women anymore because those women can now chose not to be with those men. And why do you think that is? Because women are bad? Or because those men are BAD and we can see it and now we can chose not to be with them? Majority, huge majority of adult men are in relationships and married, most of them are not body builders, rich or super handsome, just normal guys, so those who are not maybe should ask themselves, is the problem in the fact that women can now decide not to be with them and have free will (but be with some other man even if he is poorer or not that handsome) or is the problem in THEM? Because there are people who never ever have any self-relflection and always the problem is in others, they never look into themselves and be at least a little self-conscious.

If you promote beating women up, revoking them from every human right, declaring their value is in their youth and sex, claiming women are in any way "less" than men, what the hell do you expect? No decent person, men or woman, will ever consider you even as a friend. Yes, I can say the same other way around, if genders are reversed, but that's not the topic here and I am a woman, so I reserve the right to always be on side of women. Men can defend themselves in some articles they write. I do not hate men, I fear some of them. I fear those who hate us for no reason but the fact we are born with XX chromosome, which is scary. I fear those who do not see us as humans at all. And the fact is, they are physically stronger than most of us which is what makes them scary. If you do not like us, just because we are women, please, do us a favor, just leave us alone. We will appreciate that.



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